Chill Love
02-14-2011, 12:16 AM
Love is such a hard thing to define. Some people say you don't know what love is, until you are really old and ready to die. Then, you say, "oh, that's what love is." Some people think love is feelings of excitement and pleasure, but then they go from one person to the next, and then another, and never really stay in one place. Maybe because excitement doesn't last a long time; it's like a bonfire. Other people think love is a combination of trust and care and loyalty and honesty. All of these are equally difficult to define as love itself.
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I know nothing about a girl's first love, which seems so pure and wonderful. I do know about a boy's first love, which seems quite the opposite. Get to know your friend really well, and take your time. Sometimes, the real person behind the dream can be different than what we hoped for at first. That's why they say, "love is blind." But I'm sure your parents and friends, who love you and don't want to see you get hurt, would tell you to take your time. It can be difficult to suppress those feelings though. For a little bird, safe in her cage, to find herself perched at the open doorway can be confronted with an overwhelming world of wonders that's a lot to take in all at once. I wouldn't want to go through life wondering, "what if..." I say take the chance, and experience life. Don't tell him that you like him just yet though. That's right, I still think you should take it really slow. But find out about the person more. Do you have things in common, besides liking the same kinds of food? Is he totally the opposite of you? Does he have any idea what love is? You might find that you like anyone more, or less.
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You don't even have to go out on a date with him, but just hang out with a lot of friends together. In the end, life is full of ups and downs that make us happy and sad; but that's what makes us stronger and smarter people. Even when you find that the world is spinning so fast around you. If you do decide not to pursue your feelings, then you can always do other things to take your mind off of him. You can hang out with friends, meet more people, or get involved in a hobby. The most important thing is to take good care of yourself.
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I know nothing about a girl's first love, which seems so pure and wonderful. I do know about a boy's first love, which seems quite the opposite. Get to know your friend really well, and take your time. Sometimes, the real person behind the dream can be different than what we hoped for at first. That's why they say, "love is blind." But I'm sure your parents and friends, who love you and don't want to see you get hurt, would tell you to take your time. It can be difficult to suppress those feelings though. For a little bird, safe in her cage, to find herself perched at the open doorway can be confronted with an overwhelming world of wonders that's a lot to take in all at once. I wouldn't want to go through life wondering, "what if..." I say take the chance, and experience life. Don't tell him that you like him just yet though. That's right, I still think you should take it really slow. But find out about the person more. Do you have things in common, besides liking the same kinds of food? Is he totally the opposite of you? Does he have any idea what love is? You might find that you like anyone more, or less.
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You don't even have to go out on a date with him, but just hang out with a lot of friends together. In the end, life is full of ups and downs that make us happy and sad; but that's what makes us stronger and smarter people. Even when you find that the world is spinning so fast around you. If you do decide not to pursue your feelings, then you can always do other things to take your mind off of him. You can hang out with friends, meet more people, or get involved in a hobby. The most important thing is to take good care of yourself.